Neanderthals cooked and ate vegetables
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http://www.edge.org/3rd_culture/wrangham/wrangham_index.html
http://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2009/06/invention-of-c...
Cooking was essential in the development of the ancestral line leading to Homo sapiens (for what it allowed in changes in body structure) but it is not a defining characteristic of the difference between species Homo sapiens and earlier species or contemporary species in the genus.
Brief State Machine anecdote: Any automated door that swings out has a FSM or circuit equivalent that blocks swinging out if someone is standing on the pressure pad of the outside portion. We used to have fun blocking in friends this way...
Technically, this ability isn't unique to humans alone. Other species, such as dolphins and chimpanzees, are also able to create and pass on knowledge. For example, certain dolphins around Florida have developed a strategy of catching fish by first encircling areas of water by kicked up sand: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ArsoMcVi5MM&feature=playe... This is purely a learned behavior and has to be taught to offspring.
What humans do that is unique is use language to pass on complex pieces of information. Though there was an African grey parrot named Alex who was plenty capable... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R6KvPN_Wt8I
Gesture, timing, posture, expression can change everything.
Pedant: "A double negative can mean the positive. But a double positive never means the negative"
Smartass: "Yeah, right"
When determining what is fundamental to being human, these peripheral, incidental things don't get to the core of the matter.
And Homo Neanderthalensis probably can have invited you to a barbeque :) .