For example, most men who get prostate cancer die of something else first. The treatment often destroys quality of life, so is worse than the disease.
Also, you can't compare women's diseases to male diseases. Women have all kinds of body changes that men don't experience.
And doctors generally don't signup for heroic measures after retirement. They know when your time is up, prolonging life in an ICU is not living.
You're not going to live forever.