Your commentary on the man's life encapsulates many of the reasons that could make a person want to just ditch civilization and live on a boat.
- Constant worry about looking proper
- Constant worry about your reputation (when people are probably busy thinking about their own reputation instead of yours)
- A large amount of legal restrictions around anything at all
- Telling people what to do so that they conform to your expectations
- Wealthy people determining the legal and regulatory landscape according to their needs
- Less wealthy people losing sleep over whether they are pleasing those wealthy people
- Less wealthy people badgering even less wealthy people so that they do what the wealthy people want
I don't necessarily think that his lifestyle is the best idea or that he is an enlightened sage, but the contrast between the two world views is captivating.
> Mom says "Nice that you are important, it's more important that you are nice". Playing nice is a 2nd grade skill.
If you define "nice" as just doing what wealthier people want because of incentives to do so. In a more Nietzschean sense, being nice is what you have to be when you are powerless. If you turn the calculus the other way, it's worth asking what incentives the lad has to listen to demands. Can he be arrested or have his boat taken away? I don't have the answers to these questions, but I do wonder what the power balance is in this case.