Talkita Lets You Chat with Users Browsing the Same Sites as You
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OK just did a lil search, and it turns out they were called Talkito. So close! http://techcrunch.com/2006/11/09/the-y-combinator-companies
_why's Hoodwink.d was pretty fun though. Since you had to discover it first and then do a little bit of basic hacking to get in, it was a pretty neat little community.
I'm willing to bet that any website with the critical mass of users required for there to be any likelihood that there will be enough people to chat with, will be too popular for there to be a good enough quality of chatter for me to want to chat to.
Does anyone know what I'm talking about?
Since you mention it, I was the one who first worked out how to block ThirdVoice; their little image tags were all assigned the same class and so one CSS rule made them all display: none. They "fixed" that, so I made a JS script that ran after theirs that could look at img source and remove them if they were Third Voice's. At that point they changed their license to forbid those who downloaded the program from "interfering with another user's experience of the product", and while I would happily have refrained from downloading it and clean-room implemented something, it was never an issue; their day in the sun had passed.
Technical detail: ThirdVoice was implemented as an Internet Explorer plugin that worked in the context of the page itself, so all the DOM nodes were accessible within the page once ThirdVoice "fired", which, in a 1999 browser, was a very noticable event. If in fact it was still around today, it would be notorious for breaking otherwise-functional websites by changing the DOM in ways the website didn't expect. They also had the usual bad HTML filtering, so their product allowed you to insert cross-site scripting attacks into arbitrary sites. I was able to convince <p onmouseover=""> to work, another group discovered <bgsound src=""> worked as soon as you opened the note with no further interaction. Fun times.
(And I count myself vindicated by time; this approach never took off, and the one I advocated did, which was sites that aggregate links and collect comments and communities on their own. Sites such as, oh, say, Hacker News. Or less crowd-panderingly, Slashdot, MetaFilter, Digg, Reddit, etc. Please forgive me if I take a moment to toss that in here, ten years later.)
this screenshot of it takes me back 12 years, woah: http://www.forest.impress.co.jp/article/1999/06/17/gooey.gif
Before that, Ka-Ping Yee made CritLink: http://zesty.ca/crit/
Edit: @aheilbut got it - ThirdVoice.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virtual_places
One early version even had avatars that appeared in page and could be repositioned to move closer/further from other chatters.