A Growing Problem in Real Estate: Too Many Too Big Houses
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I live in and own a detached single family home (was a compromise with my spouse) and to be honest, I hate it. I hate having to take care of the yard, to deal with unreliable tradespeople when things break, to deal with the huge expense of minor home repairs - and this is even after outsourcing as much of that work as possible.
Compare that to renting an apartment, which I loved. If something broke, I just called the super, and that was that. This ridiculous idea that renting is "throwing money away" is absurd. I'm paying someone to deal with all the shit I absolutely don't want to deal with, and more importantly I'm paying for the freedom to easily up and move if something else fits my fancy.
When we rented, we were subjected to eviction at any time, for nearly any reason, for basically no notice (60 days, which in the US is effectively zero notice). Your subjected to every whim the crazy wildly-irrational housing market throws at you (we've had 12% yearly rental increases for a decade straight now, despite living in bumblefudge-nowhere Midwest).
Renting in the US today is capital-e Evil, and just wholly broken. Unless we're ready to implement some guaranteed nationwide rent controls and guarantees against unjust eviction and harassment, making housing ownership possible for all citizens has to be the number 1 goal. Because home/condo ownership is the only way to gain any sort of housing security in most of the USA today.
[1] https://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2019/02/singl...
It definitely feels like we're moving towards a system of feudal property barons extracting rent from people who are quickly being priced out of the means to own their own home.
I'd like something along the lines of federal rent control. Limit the rent that can be charged to reduce the profitability of buying up house after house. This would be unpopular with the current owners of homes as it would lower property values, but over time they would remain much more stable.
Quick math for the rest of you out there: That means they paid 1000 in 2009 and now pay ~3500 in 2019.
Also, yes, I feel you there. Our rental agreement states a mandatory 10% increase if you rent from year to year. I've no idea why the company is this stupid though. The rents around us are falling or staying steady these days. So we just move to the block over every year and the old place stays empty for 3 months before then being rented out for the same or less than we paid. I'm sure there is some tax thing involved here that makes it so they don't have to care all that much.
Also, yeah, we don't have a lot, and we can just move houses in about a weekend in my 4-door.
So it's in their best interests to try to squeeze customers when possible, even with the occasional person that moves out, they'll net a lot more from tenants who just don't bother to dispute the increase.
A fixed mortgage is much less painful.
Loyalty tax, perhaps. They expect people to just "take it".
Which means they're almost certainly exaggerating, unless they're in a condo in downtown Chicago, but they did say "bumblefudge-nowhere" so I'd say just straight BS.
Why even sign that agreement? That landlord obviously isn't going to give a toss if there's a issue. Its just a huge red flag for me.
IIRC there are renters rights in many areas that make this more difficult, requiring a court order typically, but not all areas have this and Landlords will put those clauses in the lease regardless just in case the tenants aren't familiar with the law.
That was part of the motivation for buying my first house. The rent was going up $50/month every 6 months, and the mortgage was going to cost only $100/month more than the rent. I figured in a year I'd break even, and in 2 years I'd be ahead.
I’d like to invest in rental property, but would never want to be a landlord. My mother rented out a house and the renter trashed it.
Not saying you're wrong but at least where I've lived, I could very easily find a new place to live in 60 days. I think usually landlords give the terms of a new lease much less than 60 days away from the end of the current lease, and most people usually don't decide to move or stay before they know how much their current place is going to cost.
There is no such thing unless your home is paid off.
If you have a mortgage and are hit by a catastrophic life event that leaves you without a job and depleted of your emergency fund, your home is gone.
That risk exists regardless of whether you rent or own.
The risks he mentioned are unique to rentals. It's very common for leases to essentially say "We can kick you out if we feel like it," no justification necessary. Even if the lease stipulates some justification, they'll find a way around it ("Our maintenance crew noted your excessive noise on 37 separate occasions. You also have a wreath hanging on your door, which is another violation of the lease.").
It's extremely rare for a mortgage to contain any sort of terms that allow you to be arbitrarily kicked out of your home.
Stop paying your mortgage and it can be months or years.
I used to own a 1000 sq ft cape cod that was built in 1942. I fixed everything myself and since it was small, nothing could really get out of hand. I believe most of the pain involved in home owning lately has come from bigger houses with more complex systems/appliances.
The way to do it is really to find a small set of good, reliable tradespeople, give them your business for all your repairs and improvements, and pay them well. There aren't many of them, though, and they'll cost you. Finding that small set of reliable contractors is part of what your rent goes to.
My dad used to do a lot of the home maintenance himself. Sometimes it worked fine, and sometimes (like the time he tried to replace the roof himself right before a thunderstorm, without having a giant tarp) it was pretty disastrous. In any case, it's not really realistic in today's world (where you usually need two incomes to survive) with today's homes (which are giant, complex, and built to a labyrinth of building codes that you are probably violating when you do improvements yourself).
Personally I loathe doing any kind of maintenance work. I hate dealing with drywall, paint, wiring, pipes, and whatever else you have to deal with when maintaining a home.
I preemptively replaced my water system this spring (electric to gas heater, added water softener). Took me a whole week (5-10pm work) and lots of pre-planning, but every time I walk downstairs I can't help but admire all the coppers lines I piped in. I dunno it was kinda like Hello World of the building trades, hearing the heater kick in after all was done was awesome.
Now, I've worked with my hands my whole life and have done tons of smallerish projects around this house, but this was the biggest one I tackled. Saved me 3-5k I'm sure and it really gave me a sense of accomplishment.
To each is own though.
Unfortunately, at least in our market, there's not much built in the last 20 years where the builders favored actual rooms instead of just one giant open public space. If you're lucky the basement's finished so maybe you get two of those.
Also the quality of repairs completely depends on your land lord. I've had some great ones, but on average I much prefer having the ability to repair what I want when I want.
You can do a ton of home improvements yourself and save a ton of money, or work to build relationships with reliable trades people (they exist) and pay someone else to take care of all of that. If you rent your entirely at the mercy of your land lord.
The trend should not be to "give up on the dream of home ownership" but make it easier and more reasonable for most people to achieve.
Leaving my boots out isn’t worth half a million dollars and my spare time. I’m not muddy often enough to even consider where I leave my footwear. I worked in agriculture during college. It was literally never an issue.
My bicycle is in a secure storage room near my car and motorcycle. A security guard checks on them regularly, even when I am out of the country.
I have hobbies that I pursue outside my apartment. I even rent a garage with a friend for one of those hobbies.
Why does home ownership have to be made easy for most people? From where I’m sitting home ownership and “the American Dream” appear to be incredibly wasteful and not particularly appealing.
There’s a long list of things I would rather do than home improvements, regardless of how easy those improvements are.
Can’t we all just make the decisions that are best for ourselves?
I don't think for a minute that owning a home costs less month-to-month over renting - with maintenance and upkeep, repairs and new appliances periodically, it's probably a break-even at best. But, at the end of it in 20 or 30 years I can sell the house and have that money (to buy a smaller house, or move into something senior-citizen appropriate, or a condo or whatever). With renting, that's not the case.
It also helps that I live in the Midwest, where property prices are not insane. I just sold my first house (made almost $30k over what I paid 18 years ago), and now I'm buying a 5-bedroom, 3k sq ft house in a nice neighborhood... for $230k.
Is it for everyone? No. But there's no way I'd rent, at least not at this stage of life.
Maybe the landlord can hire less expensive maintenance staff than you can, but maybe they can't. Is it really that different to have the house plumber come down and fix something vs. hiring a plumber from the yellow pages?
The landlord has to pay the mortgage same as you would. Maybe he gets a better rate because he can get some 1%er special equity deal, but fixed loans are like 3.5% so his margin can't be huge. He doesn't get a break on the taxes for the primary residence (although this went away I think?).
Ultimately it's difficult for a landlord to be so much more efficient that he can offer the rents at a lower rate and still make money.
How is that buy vs rent? Sounds like just house vs apartment?
For example, "Social Benefits of Homeownership and Stable Housing" (https://realtoru.edu/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/Homeownershi...)
"Research has consistently shown the importance of the housing sector on the economy and the long-term social and financial benefits to individual homeowners. The economic benefits of the housing market and homeownership are immense and well-documented. [...] In addition to tangible financial benefits, homeownership brings substantial social benefits for families, communities, and the country as a whole."
(Yeah, I know everyone is going to hate the "NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF REALTORS" bit. But the citations and such seem reasonable. An older version is at https://www.nar.realtor/sites/default/files/migration_files/...) "Reexamining the Social Benefits of Homeownership after the Housing Crisis" (https://www.jchs.harvard.edu/sites/default/files/hbtl-04.pdf):
"Turning to the policy implications, federal homeownership promotion effects have been at least partially justified by claims that homeownership creates better citizens, results in healthier neighborhoods, and provides a range of other social benefits. Thus, it is important to assess the validity of those claims. This is not to say that other good reasons for supporting homeownership do not exist, only that if homeownership is not generating the claimed social benefits, we should stop using them as a justification.
"The updated literature review presented above does provide support for several social benefits of homeownership. Even after taking self-selection and other confounding factors into account there is considerable evidence that positive homeownership experiences result in greater participation in social and political activities, improved psychological health, positive assessments of neighborhood, and high school and post-secondary school completion. The jury is still out, however, on several other claims including improved physical health, and both the cognitive abilities and positive behaviors of children."
On the one hand, yes, you're right that the repair expenses can be a big deal. If you don't want anything but the basics for the technology in your home, sometimes a home warranty can be a good option too but experiences vary significantly.
On the flip side though, after my 15 year mortgage is up I'm not going to pay another dime outside of maintenance on this thing. On a 30 year, you'll still pay a fortune over the life of the loan which makes the renting argument a lot closer.
It also depends on the phase of your life. Personally, I can't imagine having kids and dogs without a yard. If I didn't have kids or hadn't found an area where I really wanted to settle down, renting would make perfect sense.
At the point that you find somewhere to spend the rest of your life, become a part of the community, get involved, make local friends, raise a family...home ownership makes a lot more sense.
I'm a firm believer in outsourcing repetitive work. I've had a yard company since the first 2 months in my first house because the time trade off for me was more than worth it. You also will eventually learn your way around finding good and reliable contractors for the important things (plumbing, electrical, general repairs). Word of mouth is hugely important there.
A lot of this stuff is pretty easy to learn too. I was pretty proud of myself the first time I disassembled a toilet to fix it. The more you learn, the less you need to call for help for small stuff.
If you can assume historical returns, renting is a financially superior choice. Well, assuming my math was correct. Both are big assumptions admittedly.
The reason is that when you buy, while you are effectively saving by having your money go towards your home, over the long term on average home prices don't increase.
On the other hand if you invest that down payment, it will compound.
Note that the result is not the same if you buy a place with cash and rent it out to others, because in this case you can reinvest your returns. However if you buy a place to live in, for most people they need a mortgage and their theoretical savings can not be reinvested.
Or in other words, O(c^n) is a superset of O(n) for c > 1.
You'll have property taxes as well, which could be meaningful depending where you live. I was talking to one of my neighbors the other day who has lived in his home here in Seattle for over 40 years and he told me he is taking out a equity line of credit against his fully owned home to pay the property taxes as they've increased beyond what his retirement income can cover.
Once the home gets older you get into more than just maintenance as well; you get into replacement. Replacing the appliances, roof, windows, mechanicals, etc can be lead to some very serious expenses. The same neighbor needs to replace his roof, which he also can't afford until he gets the credit line.
Property taxes on 3 bedroom place in san francisco are going to be at least $1,000 a month. Even when you've paid it off, it stays expensive.
You can always try to find someone you can relatively trust to do an inspection but a good contractor can be just as hard to find, and finding one willing to take a day out of his busy schedule to checkout the home you're interested in can be difficult.
I don’t consider a home an investment in the traditional sense.
I do consider a paid off house to be worth the amount of money that I would have to save to have a safe rate of return to live somewhere minus maintenance and property taxes.
If a paid off house will save me $12000 a year. The value of that house to me is $12000/.04
Also, a house is a great inflation hedge. Rent goes up with the market. The mortgage stays the same. Property taxes and insurance can go up.
But, I've always loved the long game. Plant trees for shade in ten years. Build a pergola (more shade, cooler house). Replace the old crappy X with a higher quality model that will pay for itself in five years. So on & so forth.
You do have to learn to do some of the work yourself, because tradesmen are more trouble than they are worth for small jobs.
Like you, I only own a place as a compromise with my wife. And like you, I hate everything that comes with homeownership. People don’t realize there are a lot of hidden costs in owning a home.
When you rent, if you secure a 12 month lease, you know exactly how much you’re spending in housing over the next year.
When you own, all bets are off. This year for example we’ve already spent a couple thousand dollars on appliances that broke. There are things around the place we know are gonna need repairs soon and those are gonna cost us a few hundred more.
Our situation is compounded by being under an HOA, so special assessments are always a possibility.
I know two people who sold their homes and went back to renting specifically because they couldn’t put up with maintaining a home anymore.
I saw renting as paying for a service. I know I wasn’t building equity, but I saw it as paying for not having to worry about all the crap I have to worry about now. Any issue was a phone call and $0 away from getting resolved and the maintenance folks were always awesome at the place where we lived.
Only for exactly 12 months though. After that, your rent could double for all you know, and there’d be nothing you could do. You can move, of course, but now you’ve been forced to upend your life.
I live in a rent stablized apartment, and I feel lucky not just because my current price is lower than market rate overall. But of course, that’s not a scalable economic solution.
But you don’t know what you are going to be paying in year 2,3,4,5 etc.
Our rent went up from $1300 in 2012 to $1700 in 2016. It’s now $1900/month.
Besides that, I don’t have people making noise all around me and everyone had the apartment mandated Comcast bundle including the wireless router where we had 10-15 wireless signals interfering with ours.
I had the opposite problem. When I lived in a condo previously, I had the poor luck to live next to a shitty neighbor who would have parties at 5AM on Monday morning because she didn't work. The fact is anyone can get unlucky and have a shitty neighbor, but at least when you rent if the hassle is bad enough you can much more easily up and move.
There is something to be said for this.
However, there is also something to be said for the ability to not be kicked out of your living space directly ("we have decided not to renew your lease") or indirectly ("should you renew your lease, we will be increasing rent by $500 and installing smart locks in every apartment").
However, the reason I made my original comment is I feel that so often, at least in the US, the downsides of home ownership are completely minimized (I think people usually vastly underestimate maintenance costs, both in time and money) while the downsides of renting are blown out of proportion (the "you're just throwing money away" false comparison).
Take gun ownership or something less controversial: a grill. If you own the home, you can grill to your heart's content. If you rent, there's likely all sorts of rights you forfeit in a contractual agreement (lease) and using a grill is often explicitly banned (it's a fire hazard and doesn't effect the property owner to disallow it, only helps them).
Thankfully, many states have enacted protections that override what can be contracturally restricted for living dwellings, granting new explicit rights but these are by no means exhaustive and vary from state to state and even by municipality.
In the case described, you're choosing convenience over liberty. "Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety." In this case I would support home ownership over dealing with mild inconveniences of maintenance (then again, I'm used to performing maintenance).
At the same time, many don't have that same choice and its not about choosing prefered conveniences. Renting is the only option for many because they can't even imagine starting a mortgage or gathering the necessary downpayment. On-top of that, as mentioned by others, property ownership becomes a huge financial liability that in today's economy and job market for many makes juggling finances even harder by reducing socioeconomic mobility. Maybe they wish to own and could currently afford it but the liability is too great to consider due to volatility in the job market.
With ownership, slightly better income opportunities often have to be passed by because once relocation fees, market flux, and logistics of a current mortgage are factored in, many opportunities turn out to be large setbacks. Unfortunately many must choose between renting and flexibility for enough income to live reasonably vs many granted rights they're forced to give up in order to survive--I dont consider this a convenience choice. This should not be the case, but IMHO, it's a result of the ongoing further and rapid concenteation of wealth and power in the United States that lead to these scenarios.
We are losing our country to a very few peoples' gains. Perhaps its always been this way but it feels like a more recent trend from my limited view
Don't know if it is still the case, but last time I was in an apartment (early 2000s) there were also limitations for Internet and Television. DirecTV was popular at the time, I was the first to put a dish in a bucket on the balcony. The apartment managers said I had to take it down and use Comcast. Fortunately, when presented with a printout of the FCC rules they reneged and dishes started popping up all over the complex... Which didn't do great things for the brochure :)
I'd rather have a dream where I have more responsibility and ownership as I progress in life rather than the dream of eternally renting and owning nothing. Sure I have to deal with shit I used to just call up my landlord and have them deal with it, but learning new skills and how to fix random things is fun too, at least to me. Not everyone's cup of tea I get it, but neither is renting forever.
I'll give an analogy: my dad used to hoard toilet paper, preferring to "own" large stockpiles of it rather than just get it as necessary from the store. Why? Because he grew up in WW2, in an occupied country, and had to shit in the river and wipe his butt with stones. This doesn't even compute for my American-born generation: to us, the supermarket is always there, and if you need toilet paper you go buy it.
Similarly, if you can assume that another rental will always be there when you need it, there's no need to own. And in dense urban areas with lots of landlords, that's a pretty valid assumption. Somebody refuses to rent to you (which has happened), just rent from somebody else. I'd rather own financial assets like stock - which I can take with me anywhere, and which usually have a much greater monopoly position than the landlord - and then use the income thrown off by them to rent accommodation.
Would I be fucked if there were a financial crisis or breakdown in social order? Yes. But if I were to own a typical 1/4 acre suburban detached home, I'd still be fucked - because you're still renting water & sewer access from the city, electricity from the utility, Internet from Comcast, food from the grocery store, etc, not to mention that your ownership only extends to your ability to pay the bank monthly. If you want to actually be secure & independent, you not only need your own land with a sturdily-built home, you also need solar panels, well water, a septic system, and obscurity. And you need to own it free & clear with no debts.
A similar logic applies to people who take Uber instead of owning a car, or who pay monthly for a SaaS instead of buying software outright, or who get food delivered rather than owning cookware and cooking themselves. As long as they can count on the service always being available, it works.
I don't see how the risk of being evicted (is this something people worry about?) is any greater than the numerous possible disasters that could strike a place you own in ways renters don't have to worry about.
This kind of semantic babble only serves to cloud people's judgment. For some people, owning makes more sense. For others, renting makes more sense. Not sure what is hard to understand about that.
However, after doing the math I think I will rent for my entire life since it makes much more sense financially (much to my surprise)
At any point that I feel like it, I can pick up and move. Whether it is to a place across the street or on the other side of the country.
I wouldn't have nearly that much freedom if I had the misfortune of owning my own place.
* If your neighbor decides to throw a party at 2:00 a.m. on a Wednesday, you're automatically invited!
* Getting to meet all your neighbor's pets on the 4'x6' area of lawn designated for walking them!
* No need to worry about interior decorating; your favorite wall color is always white! (And your favorite exterior color is that weird greenish-beige!)
* No need to worry about that hobby that takes up too much space: you don't even need to consider it!
* If you're really lucky, the excitement of drug busts and gunfire in the parking lot. Your own action-adventure show!
Here's an example: In SF, your cost of ownership is roughly 2% per year (1.4% property taxes, 0.5% for Earthquake Insurance, 0.3% for repairs and depreciation and HOA), which comes to a total of 2.2%.
The average Rent for an equivalent house is roughly 3% of the purchase price per year. So the spread is just 0.8%. Which means, if you can take the equity you would have put into the house and put it somewhere else, as long as you get a 0.8% real return (easier said than done with the high PEs we're facing), then you'll be ahead with renting. And of course, if you need to do a mortgage as most do, that adds a additional 1-3% to the cost of ownership making it even more in favor of the renter.
Now keep in mind, here in SF, it's pretty extreme. Most places have a much larger spread between renting and owning.
According to Trulia[1] the median sale price for two-bedroom homes increased from $1.010M five years ago to $1.407M today, which corresponds to an annual return of about 6.8%. Assuming that trend continues, the actual spread would be more like -4.3% for ownership (2.5% cost minus 6.8% appreciation) vs. 3% for renting, or 7.3% altogether in favor of ownership. You'd only come out ahead by renting if you can find an investment returning more than 7.3% per year.
[1] https://www.trulia.com/real_estate/San_Francisco-California/...
If the cost were 0.5% I don't think it would be worth paying, that would buy a lot of seismic reinforcement.
Yet you'll almost always come out ahead financially, so not ridiculous at all. Real estate is a great way to build wealth, and owning your home comes with all sorts of financial advantages.
Also, you're paying that super. Nothing is free; it's a part of your rent. You may get lucky and have a responsive management company... or you may not, and that is likely tied pretty closely to how much your rent costs each month. It's not hard to get in tough with service people and, you know... you can always just learn how to fix things yourself.
Get a yard service - I pay $150 a month for them to come twice a month.
Get a home warranty - it’s about $600 a year and they fix everything - appliances, hot water heaters, plumbing, etc. I haven’t purchased one for current home because it’s a new build, but I did for furnished rental property I previously owned. In the grand scheme of things for an owner occupied home it’s probably not a great deal but it’s worth the peace of mind for some.
It very often costs a lot more than $600 to maintain a home for a year. The warranty service only makes money if they can spend less than that on the home. As a result, the biggest and most profitable warranty companies are the ones that promise the most and spend the least.
So, how often do things break, then?
I've always thought of home ownership as full control of what gets replaced and when. No unnecessary refurbishments unless you like that sort of work, or opt in for preventative maintenance. Most people I know who live in single family houses haven't had to do much actual or imminent repairs. Wirings last for decades. Ditto for pipes and sewers. Heating too. Some have done minor jobs like repainting a few rooms, or painting the roof every ten years. Others couples do a lot of redesign, refurbishing, and redecorating all the time but they seem to like it.
In my experience, owning your house is a very cheap way to live unless you like to re-do things all the time. There's the risk of disasters like pipes breaking and flooding walls but those are, honestly, dead rare (and you carry insurance, of course).
Ditto for yard. You can make the yard do with minimal maintenance if you choose to do so. Or you can create a varied garden that generates a lot of work throughout the season if you like that sort of thing. But it's quite easy to create a minimal maintenance yard and most home owners I know seem to have opted for just that.
Disclaimer: I don't live in USA and maybe things are different there.
What you describe does exist, it's called property management, and they generally take some %age of your rent.
My wife and I would not give up owning our house for anything, and would never go back to renting. I pride myself in being able to make minor repairs to all kinds of things around the house, and seeing them as fun engineering challenges rather than burdensome responsibilities. My wife loves gardening and needs plenty of yard space for planting.
Most of all (and I may be in the minority here), I really value peace and quiet, and true peace and quiet can only be achieved in a detached house, and preferably even with some generous distance from the next house. If I think back to living in an apartment, I was super easily annoyed by any noise made by neighbors, including pounding footsteps, loud music, screaming children, barking dogs, etc.
Of course the house we own isn't exorbitantly large, or not larger than what we need it for, but even if we'll need to "downsize" at some point in the future, it will be to another detached house, and not an apartment.
Irony: one of the few reasons I continue to put up with the hassle of homeownership is that it affords me the freedom to play music as loud as I like, as late at night as I please, without irritating my neighbors.
It's the services of a rental property manager without the rental part.
With adults these days (me included) being more technically savvy but less... handy, it seems perfect.
Luckily, growing up, my father made sure I could do just about every possible home repair. I may not do them all now; but, I can and I know enough to avoid being ripped off.
YMMV in other places, but that's why we're in a non-walkable boring suburb with dumb, giant yards making the distance to the nearest pools and parks (and everything else) further than they need to be.
The issue with fixes gets even worse when you live in an older city and most of the homes are 80+ years old. It was a nightmare when you start to think about all the little things that are eventually going to need repaired/replaced in the not so distant future.
For now I am happy not having to do any yard work and only having to pay and electric and internet bill. The simplicity is great but I do miss having a little more space for storage/hobbies.
But on the flip side there is a huge feeling of satisfaction and pride when you accomplish certain tasks or home improvement projects. You've bettered the property you own and often have learned new skills. It also makes the beer taste even better when you're finally ready to relax.
> For their retirement in a suburb of Asheville, N.C., Ben and Valentina Bethell spent about $3.5 million in 2009 to build their dream home: a roughly 7,500-square-foot, European-style house with a commanding view of the Blue Ridge Mountains.
Put $3.5m into https://dqydj.com/net-worth-percentile-calculator-united-sta... and you find that they are at least in the 96.5 percentile. (They are unlikely to have mortgaged it, as most lenders won't lend past retirement for obvious reasons)
The house is 700 (seven hundred) square meters. By comparison, London is banning the construction of "mega homes" over 150m2 in an attempt to prevent hypergentrification by oligarchs. These people in the article are the wealthy who haven't noticed that the ladder has fallen away behind them leaving nobody to buy their mansion.
What does a rich older couple do in 7500sq ft/700sq m? I'd run out of ideas for rooms after about 200 sq m, and then I'm left to clean the remaining 500 sq m. anyway...
Yet, it's cheaper to live in the empty house than renting something smaller or getting into a elder facility care house.
obviously they hire people to maintain the place.
To be honest, I didn't even need 700 sq m to raise kids in. Some people are just so rich that enormous homes like that make sense to them. But then they are so out of touch that they don't realize that very few people even want lives like that.
It's tough for me to imagine using that much space, it's just going to accumulate dust. But then again, the people building houses that big probably just hire someone to dust it for them.
It's easier for some people to blame others and hold on to nostalgic knick-knacks, then maintain good relationships.
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So much making could be done. I'm in a ~4000sqft home right now and all I really want is a workshop with and office. I'd downsize to almost nothing if I could detach from the house and do stuff and thing.
2. As a status symbol
3. If you have kids (and grand kids), you want a place to host them all at the same time (and this location happens to be popular with the kids...)
They eventually came to the realization that they want a smaller place though...
However, there's another problem here, one for the rest of us — The site used for a single-family 700sqm home could've been used for something denser, that would've lowered housing costs for everybody else.
That's not really relevant in this case. All of the neighborhoods mentioned are low density distant suburbia. There are few jobs nearby and little incentive for growth there for working people. Housing costs are already pretty low for normal-sized houses in this area.
The US is huge and most of it has very low density. Unfortunately, with the transition to a service economy, automated agriculture, and the outsourcing of most manufacturing, fewer and fewer jobs exist outside of urban centers.
So you get insane housing costs in the increasingly few areas where there are lots of jobs, meanwhile other areas just languish. For the price I paid for my small Cape Cod house here in Seattle, in the small town I grew up in, I could buy a 4,500 square foot 5 bedroom / 5 bathroom mansion on a lake with a pool, two kitchens, study, game room, theater, etc. I just couldn't find a job there that would let me afford it.
That said, those exurb mcmansions (particularly those featured in the OP) do push the boundaries of the wildland urban interface, and while their lack of density might not have the same impact on housing prices that you see in urban areas, they more or less have the same environmental impact.
The justification is pretty idiotic: https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/11/13/mega-homes-banne...
50% higher than the average? OK, but what if you have above average needs? (Four kids, live in grandparents, etc.) There are plenty of "real people" who derive legitimate benefit from more than 150 square meters.
Ah well. My city has its share of idiot housing policies, but at least this isn't one of them. We are buying a 300 square meter house in a few days, and it feels like it'll be just about right for our needs.
There's also the issue that house prices are insane:
> Earlier this year, the council banned a 1,590 square metre, £40m, mega-home
You can't deny a loan due to age in the U.S. It's specifically forbidden by federal law.
To some people, a "McMansion" is any single family house they happen to dislike. Those are the kind of things working-class people buy on credit. (Homes in the 1200sqft to 2400sqft range). These are basically cheap disposable housing, they are popular because all people have to have somewhere to live, and this is usually the cheapest possible housing available that's still slightly comfortable to inhabit.
This article is not talking about those. This article is talking about actual McMansions or just real Mansions, homes in the 5000sqft to 8000sqft+ range. They're like 2x to 4x bigger than a typical house (even when using American sizes for 'typical house'). No regular person owns these, you have to be entirely in the "wealthy" category to even begin to look at them.
The subjects of the article:
> Ben and Valentina Bethell spent about $3.5 million in 2009 to build their dream home: a roughly 7,500-square-foot, European-style house with a commanding view of the Blue Ridge Mountains.
> Robin and David Saltman moved from New Jersey to Ponte Vedra Beach, Fla., where they spent more than a year custom-building their dream house with a pool on the ocean.
> George and Diana Hambleton […] selected the materials for the roughly 4,200-square-foot house, including reclaimed barn wood and Wisconsin flagstone.
Since mcmansions are large (as you said), I think they are relevant to the discussion.
And all those empty rooms in the photographs! I don't imagine they see many days of being filled with smiling, laughing guests. Which is really the only true use of a house that big... you need to entertain, you need hundreds of friends to share it with, right? Otherwise what's the use? Maybe that's just me. I would probably get supremely depressed otherwise, all that space around me, waiting to be used, reminding me how empty it is.
Everybody gets old. Everybody dies. Everybody follows each other in a grand parade to oblivion. These people won the game the mid-20th century told them was being played, but everybody ultimately loses the Big Game.
EDIT: As an example of the Banks buying up houses: https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2019/06/20/business/econ...
(Being able to buy ownership of a business, via stock or other means, is why wealth is concentrating in the first place.)
But you start getting into monopsony then. The people that you sell to are hyper rich and may pay a fair price, but there are a lot less people overall and their tastes aren't distributed like the general population. It's not the same market at all.
You sir, are a genius. I love that wording. That should have been on the welcome brochure we all get as babies, assuming we could read it.
As one dies, so dies the other—they all have the same breath. Man has no advantage over the animals, since everything is futile. All go to one place: All come from dust, and all return to dust.
Actually, it isn't. The book of Ecclesiastes, which you quoted, goes very much against the grain of the rest of the Bible, which generally tends more towards the idea that man is distinct from the animals, and does have a higher purpose, which is to serve God. Ask any Bible-thumping evangelical and they will be very quick to tell you that all do not go to one place, because their whole raison d'etre is to persuade you that if you don't follow exactly whatever particular flavour of Christianity they are pushing, then you will end up going to a very bad place indeed whereas they, of course are already assured of their entry into a not-so-bad place for all eternity. They will also tell you that the Bible never contradicts itself. I leave you to draw your own conclusions.
I just bought my first house which is about half that size and even then it feels too big at times. But it's a house I can afford. Being mortgage free by 39 means I get the flexibility to decide what the next act of my life will be about (spoiler: my kids). All it cost me was, I guess, a pool, a hot tub, an extra car, etc.
These homes are priced in the millions and are generally not in areas known for high salaries. Coming up with that much money is out of reach for most members of younger generations. Some people may be interested in buying these gargantuan homes, but they can't afford it.
And as the article states, the generation that can most afford these homes, boomers, is losing interest in these homes because they are coming to terms with how impractical they are as they age.
That generation was raised on the idea that happiness comes from owning as many things as possible. They've had decades to learn — like the generations after them did — that this is nonsense and that happiness comes from connection to family, friends, and community.
But, instead, some segment of them still build giant empty monoliths to consumerism out in the middle of nowhere and then get surprised when they discover that they are still old and approaching death and that they still don't feel good.
For example, it's also quite common for baby boomers to hold onto their existing 3-bedroom homes, and in the process restrict housing supply of what should be affordable, reasonably-sized homes for millennials seeking to put down roots and start a family. I don't think there's anything wrong with this BTW, as it can be quite prudent to do so.
I think people were gambling on baby-boomers moving back to the cities and "downsizing" to a decent 2 or 3 bedroom condominiums. Instead, those units ended up selling to cosmopolitan millennials and Gen-Xers.
So it's absolutely an issue of price and lack of salaries in the middle of nowhere.
That's not even mentioning upkeep and utilities.
In former times grand mansions would have a ballroom. There would be hundreds of people or even just modest gatherings of thirty people, which could be just a few families with a huge amount of kids each.
But the McMansions never seem to have a ballroom. There may be vast swimming pools and all kinds of huge extra bedrooms but they lack the fantasy aspect that goes with a grand ball.
The grand ball could be a wedding or a birthday or just a seasonal event. People would have to dress up for it in very impractical clothes. A certain level of class hierarchy goes with it though, not very American doing that.
I can't remember which one, but years ago the English king would not really use the grand palaces but stay in a regular house in the grounds. He just preferred everything on a practical scale. I think I would be the same had I been born with parents with one of these McMansions, for them to pass the behemoth on to me. The place would have to be in some storage mode and I would live in some small one room caravan out the back, to only use the big house when guests arrive.
How does the heating work out for these McMansions? I don't see a lot of doors. Do these people just have huge electricity and other bills to keep the lights and HVAC on the whole time?
TBH, its great, especially when you compare what you can get for the same mortgage in the city, where even a 2 bedroom is considered too big. Anything over 2.5k sq feet in the city is either a triplex (and thereby 3x as expensive per sq foot), or a mansion that costs >$500/sq foot.
We get to have nice amenities like a hot tub, gym room, etc, and not feel like we have "too much" stuff because almost everything is actually used. It wouldn't work if we wanted to have kids of course, but we're pretty much all lgbt. The social group also has to be not only tight, but also already has good way of dealing with conflict.
This is what happened to a good number of the large country houses in England after food prices fell in the late 19th and early 20th century.
It almost seems like a majority of people expect that the nature of supply and demand should not apply to real estate.
Free markets are nearly optimal for commodities, restaurants, and similar sorts of goods, as well as many competing small businesses.
They grind along for IP, utilities, and some sectors of education, as well as large businesses.
They break down almost completely for large-scale finance, real estate, medicine, and other sectors of education.
Curiously, much of this was predicted by Adams in Wealth of Nations (read his sections on real estate; they sound downright dystopian). Even more curiously, China has privatized all the sectors where free markets work, kept public all the ones where they don't, and their economy exploded. The US economy exploded with free markets when it was driven by essentially commodity manufacturing. As IP, finance, and real estate became more important, it began to fall behind.
Then there’s the re-allocation of resources to cover the loss. If a couple make a loss of $1m selling a house, then they may need to liquidate $1m of savings to cover the loss, withdrawing that capital from the cycle of investment in productive economic activity. Interest and profits on investment don’t come from nowhere, they’re generated from the productive activities those investments support. Now there is less capital available to do useful economic work.
A house, especially a luxury house, should be considered a purchase and not a store of value. The actual physical materials of the house only depreciate over time. Sometimes the underlying land can go up in value if it's in a desirable area, but that's not the case here.
This doesn't make sense?
Firstly, the point at which the capital was withdrawn from savings was the time the house was built - savings turned into a physical capital asset. That house has lost value, but that doesn't affect liquidity.
Secondly, there's a global capital glut to start with - that's why interest rates are so low and people are building McMansions.
It's a sort of housing insecurity that makes their lives a lot more stressful than anyone should have to deal with, and it gives landlords a dangerous amount of leverage over tenants (they charge more, knowing it's being used by multiple tenants, but they'll claim lack of knowledge when the neighbors complain and the city comes knocking). And, of course, they'll ignore the lease if they get a buy offer that they don't want to say no to.
Cities, especially those experiencing dramatic rent increases and that have a history of only allowing single-family homes in much of their livable land (as most US cities do), need to remove zoning impediments to multi-family housing. There was a project published a couple days ago to map the zoning in a bunch of major cities, and it's eye-opening how tiny the available space for multi-family dwellings is in a lot of them, and it makes it make sense that there is a housing crisis in a lot of major cities. Maps are here: https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2019/06/18/upshot/cities...
Of course, that won't solve the too-big-too-far houses. The other problem with a lot of McMansions is that they were built in the middle of nowhere. Younger people want shorter commutes, the ability to bike or take mass transit, a neighborhood with shopping in walking distance, etc. People have figured out that quality of life in cities is just plain better than suburban life.
As such, the restrictions now are on separate dwellings, as defined more by number of kitchens, sub-dividability, etc., not number of people.
Meanwhile the rent on a 2 bedroom apartment is more than a mortgage on one of those houses. So guess why so many people are renting?
But also because done the right way, it could help alleviate real hardship elsewhere.
For the benefit of people not from the UK: Council tax is effectively a bill for services & utilities paid by the occupier. Cost differs slightly based on overall property value but that's not super helpful for renters.
Property taxes would be levied on the owner, and be directly tied to house value.
For what it's worth I believe we desperately need property taxes to put and end to the situation you describe, amongst others.
But the UK has a fetish for homeownership, culturally people are convinced they _must_ own a house or multiple, and so many homes were practically given away for free by past governments.
Any Government trying to implement policies that try to fix our housing crisis will be voted out almost instantly by a class of people who do not care what is for the public good, only that things benefit them.
However, from the point of view of the housing market they are comparable. They're both an annual cost to holding real estate... and in the UK it is very low.
In all countries there are plenty of older homeowners with a surplus of space. Most people don't want to move out of their home if they don't have to, even if it is now larger than they need. However it's even more so in the UK because the system incentivises people to stay put.
I agree with you that the UK needs property taxes to be paid for by the owners. This would help reduce speculation and encourage utilisation of the existing housing stock. But as another post has mentioned, objections include "think of the old people who are worth $1m+ in property but would have to move out because they have low income"....boohoo...
- a wealthy individual with many properties who can easily afford a few extra hundred quid a month
- someone living just above poverty level in a property in a previously modest area that, thanks to a gentrification, has exploded in value - and would to move out if their tax band was bumped up a bit
We cannot just dismiss the plight of the latter simply because we want to disincentivise the former.
I'd like to add that the vulnerable (including but not limited to - elderly, long-term unemployed, immigrants, disabled) in the UK have already had to deal with cuts in local services as well as periodically being labelled by the government and the press as lazy or pathetic or scroungers. I'd encourage anyone to resist anything that could be used to further victimize or immiserate them - even if it is just in the form of a casual tweet or comment.
Edit: My last paragraph really sounds a little harsh on re-reading. This is because it was meant to be an "as an aside" comment and not accusing Blackstone4 of anything sinister! I'm generally in favour of taxing the rich and powerful.
There especially isn't an issue with a redistributive land tax rather than a property tax. That would take money from corporate landlords and move it back into the rest of the economy.
You have to balance your caution with the reality at the other end - which is people living in slum conditions and/or sheds, or being homeless.
Cruel. There are plenty of old people that are able to keep living in their existing home because it is familiar but would be unable to live independently in another home.
As things stand, people defend the status quo when young people and those on lower incomes are struggling with high rents and property prices. Some have kids and have to share rooms and live in small properties. Others may end up debt slaves for the rest of their lives.
>There are plenty of old people that are able to keep living in their existing home because it is familiar but would be unable to live independently in another home.
If they have a net worth of $1m+, I'm sure they can afford to pay for care. I am not talking destitue, improvished individuals.
Property taxes don't necessarily fix the issue though, because the property value is usually re-evaluated on sale, so the property tax increases drastically at that point.
That is awful, why would you ever want to introduce such a regressive policy? Higher density construction generally costs more than low density construction. Each floor adds more cost because you need proper ventilation, elevators, stairs, etc. Therefore an apartment will be taxed more despite having the same number of square feet/meter. Despite this, apartments still make sense economically if the land value is high but if you're burdening them with yet another heavy tax then people will shift to single family homes instead.
Then there is the fact that you should never tax someone for improving their house. Oh you installed solar panels on the roof for $30,000? Lets tax that! The solar panels are no longer a net gain. Homeowners no longer have a reason to improve their homes. Imagine someone working on his house in his free time. At that point you're taxing someone's free time. How backwards is that?
Stop taxing property value. It's regressive. It's a moral hazard. It doesn't work.
If you want to tax something, then tax the land those buildings are sitting on.
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And since for some reason grandmas are the most important members of a gentrifying city we can even take a look at what happens when they get priced out from a property tax vs a land tax.
Grandma sells her overpriced home because she can't afford the property tax: She can't move into an apartment because the apartment is taxed even more than the home she left.
Grandma sells her overpriced home because she can't afford the land tax: She can move into an apartment because the apartment is taxed less than the home she left.
The idea of dealing with all of these "luxuries" is awful to me and I've seen wealthy people who didn't have to work basically turn home maintenance into their job because it required just as much time and stress as anything else. What is the point of wealth if things you use it for give you just as much headache as a middle class person's job?
(what I've seen way too often)
The UK's problem is not so much lack of houses (although the planning system really doesn't help) as a combination of over-financialisation and over-centralisation. People believe that all the high-paying employment, entertainment, and oligarch money is in London. It's also the default destination for immigrants. As a result you've got people trying to live in sheds there. Meanwhile everywhere from seaside towns to Birmingham gets treated as second-class citizens, with inadequate public transport and little inward investment.
It’s also not new - it’s been going on since the end of the Second World War pretty much.
> The good jobs ARE largely in London
Well, yes. Each individual is only doing what's best for their circumstances. What I'm questioning is whether this is how it has to be, this centralisation, and whether good jobs could be distributed round the country a bit more by some policy choices.
The real benefit of London is the networking and the culture. There's a lot of both - more so than elsewhere.
Whether it's worth the insane housing costs is debatable.
I'm kinda curious what you mean by this?
I just did a brief (didn't look at all areas) google maps tour of the area, and while I know that isn't in any way the best to assess an area, I was struck by a few things:
1) Things seem pretty quiet - little vehicle traffic, but also few people walking about, even in the "city proper".
2) Buildings seem fairly diverse; some newer, some older. Most in seemingly decent shape; a few in need of repair.
3) Some interesting shops and restaurants (saw one small restaurant called "Planet Bollywood" - heh).
4) Housing neighborhoods and such seemed and looked nice.
I guess what I'm trying to get at is that I didn't see anything that looked like "blight"; maybe I didn't look in the right areas, or maybe my concept of blight is different?
When I think of blight, I think of empty lots with weeds chest high, trash dumped, broken down and/or burned out buildings, etc - stuff in extreme states of disrepair or needing condemning and removal/cleanup.
I didn't see anything like this; but again, I didn't look everywhere. Where I did look, the worst I saw was perhaps some buildings that needed some basic upkeep and maintenance (at least, from the outside).
It really is a lack of houses. It's true that some residential buildings are not being used to full capacity. It's true that we are far too centralised around London in some respects. However, those are still relatively small effects compared to building ~100,000 too few new homes every year for decades as demographic and lifestyle changes are rapidly increasing demand.
You're right that the planning system really doesn't help, nor does the ease with which the big housebuilders routinely manage to bypass it so they can build and sell the high-end, high-profit properties without providing the balancing low-end, lower-profit ones and supporting infrastructure at the same time.
It also doesn't help that our education system has pushed people away from practical trades. There are nowhere near enough good independent tradespeople for individuals to conveniently build, adapt or extend their own homes instead of buying the over-priced, mass-produced junk that big housebuilding firms typically offer these days. In some places elsewhere in Europe, people designing and building unique properties for their own needs happens all the time. In the UK, it's still rare enough to be a conversation starter if you meet someone who's actually done it.
Of course the problem now is that a significant number of people have treated property as an investment vehicle, intentionally or otherwise, and stand to be financially ruined if there is a big crash. Meanwhile, prices have literally become prohibitive in many cities and other relatively popular locations for the younger generations who are flying the nest and looking for their first home or wanting somewhere a step up the ladder to settle down with a partner and perhaps start a family.
The only way I can see to cool the market without causing economic disaster is a slow erosion based on building a more realistic amount of housing stock so market rates naturally fall over time. But of course the big builders and mortgage lenders really don't want that, and the system is stacked against the little guy who wants to go independent for the reasons above, so without disrupting at least one of those groups, nothing changes and the problems just get worse.
It was nothing other than a massive subsidy for the most wealthy as the top band is reached so early - it's only slightly less regressive than the poll tax was. The Tory campaigns were built around how "unfair" it was for the old widow or couple, who'd worked all their lives, to pay the same as a family of 5. No mention that no one in their right mind thinks a widow still needs a 4 or 5 bed house.
Double bonus: In bringing in council tax local finance could be massively further centralised, weakening the regions even more.
It's really surprising how little push there is to get shot of council tax, bring back rates or some properly progressive tax.
Council tax actually is relatively progressive when you consider that council tax benefit is also part of the system. Very few areas have a large number of band H homes - parts of central London do, but even there you might be surprised how small a number you’re talking about - there are only c15k in the City of Westminster for example, the borough which includes the whole of Mayfair and Belgravia.
And accountability has clearly not been improved in any way.
In fact billionaires rarely pay council tax at all because councils rarely chase them. There's no point sending bailiffs to an empty property protected by professional security owned by a company with an offshore address that's effectively immune to any form of legal action.
And councils can and do apply to the court for charging orders against the property itself, then force a sale. Offshore companies as owners are not immune in any way.
The truth, of course was removing a tax on the wealthier, and drastically cutting the amount of revenue councils were able to raise locally. A good part of how we ended up with one of the most centrally controlled systems there is. Westminster decides how much funding councils get, council tax tops up a little of it. A "blessed" council can charge lower taxes through receiving higher central funding.
A welfare benefit that only some are eligible for and requires retrospective claim does not make a tax progressive. Especially with how broken the welfare system has become for those needing to claim whilst working. The absolute numbers matter little.
It turns out that most council costs are things they are statutorily obliged to do, and rate rises are capped by the government, so council tax rates are largely an indicator of the ratio of taxpayers (including businesses) to service users.
The houses in the article aren’t Victorian era detached houses that are being hogged they are fairly new built homes just big ones.
Also council tax even for a large house is often quite lower than 4K, stamp duty starts at 125K and between that and 250K it’s just 2%. So with the exception of London and a few other cities in not sure it’s what is preventing retired people form buying newer builds, the fact that the new build is likely considerably worse than the 80 year old house they live in just might be however.
Checking the numbers, Bethell is 78 so bought / built a 700m² house at 69. Their monstrosity of a house has 4m ceilings from the pictures. The Hambleton built their house at 82 and 68.
The issue isn't whether it's big enough - it's that it's my home.
We made it work, but would have gone with a manufactured home before we would have built something with 3k+ square feet just to make the bank happy.
Yes, YOU might be perfectly happy in a 1,900 square foot home, but if the market demand is for houses significantly larger, then you, or the bank, might find it (relatively) hard to find a buyer if you ever need to sell.
People have a lot of kids there.
I get not everyone loves being around their family, so its not for everyone, but it makes things far more affordable, and the house you can get by pooling money together can be quite amazing compared to what you can get by splitting the pot. There are fewer people wanting to buy these homes which means the deals you can get are quite good.
Almost all old mansions, especially in Europe used to be owned by the aristocracy, and they lived their with the entire (extended) family and servants.
A 700m2 house is terrible to live in the place is inhabited by 2 people. 10 or 15 on the other hand, make living in such a home a completely different experience.
We live in a $600k large house and pay a lot less. We may upgrade eventually, but keeping a group of people together for that long can be difficult - even if socially there's a lot of cohesion, most often its a job opportunity that requires someone to move.
I hate the idea of owning property. I don't want to be stuck to a city or a location. The world, and the universe have so much to offer. To me, buying a house is cementing your location and stunting the amount of knowledge you can acquire by handcuffing you to a location and limiting your exposure to the world.
That is the philosophical side, then there's the debt and the overall asset appreciation game that everyone else plays.
I have no interest in owning a home to settle down. If I do it, it would be to exploit financial interests with the right opportunity. I think we can use a radically different model for housing and what we consider livable spaces for our species.
I'd love to see cities built around the Dunbar number and with transportation making travel times easier, we can see some interesting designs. Foster community and allow communication and personal reach across distances. This is probably going to be forced by warehouse space in relation to live space. We're going to need more and more land for manufacturing and storage of goods compared to retail and shopping experiences. We'll have living communities without much need to venture into markets. Markets will be VR, and many jobs will be remote. Foster community with "villages" within a city that is related to the Dunbar number.
I think in a world where you don't worry about jobs, and worry less about living expenses, Boulder and San Diego and Manhattan get _more_ desirable.
Additionally again, education outside of pure learning like we're limited today on the internet will be more immersive with VR/AR and your need to go to a physical location will differ.
You can homeschool, though...
Too many people have a narrow view of home ownership and end up believing in things like this.
Whether it is true or not depends entirely on the location and the market. In the right places, you can buy a house that is near all the amenities (walking distance, even). The only real risk is the RE market, and how much loss you're willing to take to sell the house quickly (i.e. 6% RE fees when selling). In my case, the value rose enough in one year that I could have sold and still made a gain.
If you can't sell because the loss will be too high, there are other alternatives (e.g. renting your house), but as I said, it all depends on the market.
>If I do it, it would be to exploit financial interests with the right opportunity.
Umm - isn't that why many do it? I mean yes, people do buy houses for other reasons, but if they don't perform due diligence in the math, it could end up hurting.
At the moment my house is limiting my opportunities - I'm turning down any offer to move to SV, for example. But it has nothing to do with being shackled financially. I'm making the choice because of all the fringe benefits my house provides, which I would instantly lose were I to move to SV. Am I missing out on broadening my world view by not moving? Sure. Are others missing out on experiences by not owning? In some cases, yes.
But mortgage outstanding != house selling price.
https://dvd.netflix.com/Movie/The-Queen-of-Versailles/702292...
1. Price range. By definition, you're above the normal price range. This means fewer potential buyers, thus less liquidity.
2. Over-specialized. The upgrades or enhancements that made it into a luxury item, which were valuable to you, may not be valuable to someone else. You will take a loss on features that are included but others don't care about.
3. Experimental. People who make luxury items tend to include novel things that sound nice but don't pan out and turn out to be useless or even undesirable.
4. Status. Luxury and status are often linked. Luxury buyers aren't too excited about secondhand. A used sports car doesn't impress your friends like a new one.
If you buy a luxury item (like a giant house), the most rational thing to do is just accept that you are buying it because you want that luxury for yourself, and don't expect to get the money out of it later.
Investors will buy them, and get the city/county to rezone those properties for multiple houses. They will tear the house down, and build N houses on it and sell it.
In the short term, there might be a local HOA that will fight it. But when the oversupply gets large enough to really impact everyone's prices, the existing owners will favor this solution, as it will raise the value of their own mansion.
So, yeah, there aren't as many people producing demand for these houses even before considering different tastes in living style. It's a bad investment to put your life's savings in something with a plan to resell it to a less interested market. Either retire into it and get the use out of it or don't put your money there.
The market is just correcting in a quite foreseeable way.
Why do that when you can go to Houston and get the same thing at 100$/sq foot?
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Small house have their own problems but bigger houses instinctively don't seem to be the right solution to me.
Were you coerced into buying the house? If so, you should probably file a lawsuit claiming fraud. Otherwise, what is your complaint?