Professional Decline Comes Sooner Than People Think
theatlantic.com
theatlantic.com
Unless you are extremely self-motivated, I think it might be better to be 80% financially independent than 100%.
Having forces acting on you to get you out of bed and be useful might be the best thing for you.
Yes, by all means, don't live paycheck to paycheck or have to work in a demeaning way.
But there have been studies showing that mortality goes up for people who have retired.
I got into software development out of passion --I did it for fun and for my own purposes starting at age 10. I am 33 now. I don't see myself being an employee forever. While I feel like I am just as good a programmer as ever, I am less willing to be exploited by employers. Earlier in my career, I gave way too much of my time, focus, and energy to my employers. This newfound moderation may seem like a decline in performance, skill, and ability --but it is deliberate.
Still, I feel it would be very foolish to be fully dependent on any kind of career.
I’d personally rather not struggle for an uncertainty. And I’d like to find what matters to me sooner rather than later.
ISTM it's more a guarantee of suffering later for a lot of reasons, aging out of wunderkind territory, a realization that there isn't enough time left to beat the unbeatable foe, and for the pro geeks our industry's rampant ageism.
Then also before this was Pasteur and his flawed germ theory. So they began boiling milk until it turned into something useless if not downright harmful. (Milk stops being milk when you boil past 70 Celsius).
Fastforward to early 80's: they began telling us fat is bad for us (it is not, check Eric Berg on EWEtube). So sheep that most people are who need to be told what is good or not, they wrongly assumed sugar was safe, since nobody said sugar was bad. That is also why you have low-fat milk and other such nonsense.
Further down the historic line, various fads appeared. Sexy girls wrote books on how meat is dangerous and persuaded the gullible that since the cattle are being pumped all sortsa chem, so being a vegan is the right healthy thing to do.. (flaw: just cuz there is bad meat doesn't mean all meat is bad or veganism good, check the death rates of young Vegans dropping like flies on catwalks).
So my point is that along come so many experts and tell us so many false things, that it becomes difficult to navigate the noise and latch on to useful signals. One such noise is the article, which extrapolates an anecdotal or Personal observation as true for all people.
To make it sound scary, they even add "professional" decline, with all the menacing undertones it carries. I know there is nothing wrong in preparing for older age, and for some it can be faster than for others due to so many factors (such as aluminum consumption which causes dementia and doesn't exit the body--good ole Al lodges in the brain cells).
What is wrong with this article is scare-mongering and becoming a cry-wolf story rather than an intellectually valid, science-backed article.
But then what do you expect of some journos. (No offense to ALL journalists). They get paid to scare us, so that our Amygdala shrinks and we make hasty and wrong decisions, or simply freeze our brain's plasticity. Even if what I just assumed is unintentional, it still just as harmful.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with using scare as a tactic as long as a positive side is presented so that the brain sees a balance and the Amygdala doesn't shrink. But merely scaring people is unfair. It may even work as a Placebo and cause people to decline faster given that the newspaper already primed them for it. Smh.
Check out Peter Attia sometime for someone who is thinking about this topic and working on actual strategies. https://peterattiamd.com
If you're getting 8 hours of sleep, and eating lots of fruit/vegetables and exercising 4-5 times a week, 30 minutes each time, there is only so much more you can do for maximizing your wellness.
> We're on a rock flying through space.
I have never understood this phrase as anything more than a platitude to make people feel better. Anyway, don't mind me. It has been raining all week and I think it's affecting my mood.
> I have never understood this phrase as anything more than a platitude to make people feel better.
It's more than a platitude. Check out this video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GoW8Tf7hTGA
Still, nothing better than a rainy day on earth.
Right. This just happens to coincide with a shift in my life, where all the old contexts from my youth are meaningless, and I need to find new contexts.
So if there is no such thing as contributing, then the contributing you used to do only mattered because of a context you (or I) constructed to find important.
I don't think the right answer is to say, "Nothing is important." I think the right answer is to relentlessly seek for a new context to find important, to give meaning to our own life.
But even if rejuvenation drugs are not ready in time for you it is not a reason to want to die sooner. The things you want to do now are mostly determined by your intellectual abilities, and if there was a way to enhance them you may find the things that interest you now boring, and yet that is not a reason for you to die now.
Also a great way to want to teach, is having grandchildren. There is a theory that evolutionary reason for humans and some other animals to stay alive after reaching the end of reproductive age is to take care of grandchildren.
Because "peak" isn't required to contribute.
I strongly suspect I can't program like I can when I was 25 when I could hold a gazillion details in my head simultaneously--now I simply find a task that requires that to be distasteful.
I am, however, MUCH better at architecture and organization so that I don't have to hold a zillion details in my head. That also means that my programs are far easier for others to understand than the ones I wrote when I was 25.
Which one is the better "contribution"?
If you don't work it out, then you will find yourself sitting on a plane wishing you could just die with your wife asking you to stop saying that.
I'm in a similar position - bounced around careers, approaching 50, and currently lost in the woods and pissing my wife off.