This is why I am a big fan of POSSE[0] which is an abbreviation for Publish (on your) Own Site, Syndicate Elsewhere, a content publishing model that starts with posting content on your own domain first, then syndicating out copies to 3rd party services with permashortlinks back to the original on your site.

[0] https://indieweb.org/POSSE

Also worth reading:

https://medium.com/@joe_wegner/why-i-dont-write-for-medium-c...

https://www.webdistortion.com/2019/05/16/can-we-all-please-s...