Ehhhh... I'm very aware of everything behind the "elf wife guy". I was in the various fandoms when that whole drama went down just a few weeks ago. And that little snippet, "elf wife guy", is about as incorrect as one can be. The "guy" was never publicly about his wife. His now-former wife is not and has never been "a professional elf". I can't believe how completely wrong something can be in so few words.
I read a lot of words in that article but feel like I learned nothing.
It's not really supposed to teach anything, just foment a general loathing towards guys who build their identity around being a doting husband.
I approached that article with an open mind and was disappointed. Drivel.