No. I think the distinction here is important and worth being mindful of.
Whether or not a company is abusing their monopoly position has no bearing on whether or not they are a monopoly. You can't abuse a monopoly position if you aren't a monopoly to begin with, after all.
The distinction is important because in the US it's perfectly legal to be a monopoly. What's illegal is the abuse of your monopoly position.
I think by any fair standard, Microsoft can be considered to have a monopoly in the desktop market, whether or not they're leveraging that monopoly in illegal ways.