Try finding a psychiatrist willing to help you through that. Most won't (it is seen as risky and liability-generating).
And yes, most psychiatrists don't want the liability of weaning somebody off a medication.
You are right, it doesn't make any sense--it certainly is not good for patients.
But believe me there are bad doctors out there (your specific case) so you'll have to switch.
The problem is not with individual doctors, it is that the structure {legal, economic} surrounding mental health favors getting people on medication, but doesn't create good paths for them to get off (at least in the US).
I’m sure there will be/are places where these databases are run by private companies with no accountability and no way to issue a complaint.