There's a few replies to this already but I see a missing piece. We're traumatized as a generation. And our social networks have taken damage we're just beginning to understand.
Previously, survivors of wars were fairly small populations. Our great- and great-great-grandfathers were in that war. Not a few, but a major fraction. Not just in one country, but in many.
The world had never seen that sort of trauma before. It shook our cultures to their foundations, as male role models either disappeared altogether or came back with PTSD and no support structures.
It's all very different, of course. But I grok the analogy.