There is no "just let me see the content, I can't be bothered to type my password right now" option, there is no "forget that I'm that user" option, the only option is to log in or to go incognito.
https://www.mail-archive.com/golang-nuts@googlegroups.com/ms...
And I'll note that from what I can tell, forum software predates mailing list software. LISTSERV only goes back to 1986. [2] Forum software goes back to the mid-1970s [3], and the WELL was started in 1985 [4]. So I think it's reasonable to argue that online forums are the "real" experience, and mailing lists were more an implementation constraint for the decade or so that email popularity outstripped the richer interfaces of the terminal era and the web era.
[1] http://www.lsoft.com/corporate/history-listserv.asp
[2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LISTSERV
For early BBS's it was routine to create an account before doing much of anything, though they often didn't verify anything. I think some had a limited anonymous account you could use?
Was there anything before gopher that let you seamlessly jump from machine to machine?