Extroverts just don't understand introverts, and they think they can "fix" us.
Fortunately my partner is also an introvert so when we feel like been sociable we can be but the rest of our time is spent with her sat reading while I swear quietly at a computer.
I’d never really understood he phrase comfortable silence but it’s refreshing to be together but to be able to do our own thing.
I’m unusual for an introvert in that I worked sales for a couple of years so I can fake gregarious well if I need to but I find it draining.