>Why would folks ostensibly wanting to use the sharper sides of self-expression go and label their own actions as violence?
Nobody labels their own actions as violence. They label others' actions as violence, and either don't notice or hope to avoid the logical conclusion. People are not good at consistency.
People label others' words as violence in order to justify their own actual violence in return. E.g.:
"That speaker is racist and his words are violence, so we're justified in forcing open the doors and screaming and stomping to stop the speech."
>It seems strange to suggest that a declaration stripping you of many of your rights and property is not a violent act simply because the lawmaker themselves is a flaccid old man.
It really doesn't, any more than a restaurant recommendation is not an act of eating. Words have meanings.
A law to reduce pollution standards is not climate change, it is a law that will cause climate change. A law to increase government spending isn't a budget deficit, it's a law that will cause a budget deficit.
>I could set up a bomb to explode outside your car when the door opens and then claim I didn't open the door. If I undertake actions that are certain to lead to physical harm towards another how am I not in some way morally responsible?
You are morally responsible, because you're responsible for the outcomes of your acts.
This is so bizarrely simple, and I know you understand it, because you can't function in the world if you literally don't understand the difference between a cause and an outcome.
An act that leads to a result is not the same as that result. The initial act makes the actor responsible for the result. It doesn't mean that the initial act _is_ the result. This is a simple distinction present in all human languages for a reason.
E.g. If I recommend you eat at a restaurant, and you do, and enjoy it, I get some credit for that enjoyment, even though I didn't eat at the restaurant, I caused you to do it.
This is not a hair-fine semantic game, it's basic language understood by children.
Your final veiled threat is childish.