That was my takeaway - she's doing to him exactly what he allowed other people to do to her. He's finding that he doesn't like it.
Maybe I'm missing something. Can you enumerate what he allowed people to do to her, and what she did to him? That way we can compare directly.
The person and a third-party engaged (allegedly) in doxxing and public shaming.
Even if the conference organizer was in the wrong, there's a world of difference between those two things.
Please explain that. What did he 'allow' 'other people' to 'do' to her?
Not quite the same thing.