The real way to project success is egoless programming.
"in this test file, just use one assertion, don't need to use two"
"there's too many comments here"
"i don't like the extra line breaks in this file"
"bookAdminId needs to be bookAdministratorId"
these are generally comments just on test files.
I've struggled to deal with these because... well... ego is part of it, but when there are bigger structural issues, and the focus is on - imo - minutia (without much acknowledgement that these are, indeed, minor points), it's troubling. To then be told after a few weeks that you're "not delivering" is doubly so. It's hard to take 'ego' out of this altogether, but thanks for reminder.
also, it's triply bothersome because... i've been doing this > 20 years. that certainly doesn't mean I don't make mistakes, and am never wrong, but it does get tiresome to have whitespace arguments take up time 2 decades in. On top of this, there's actually an automated linter that we all adhere to, but these are 'extra' style things that someone likes to focus on outside of the linter. It's just wasteful of the company's time, more than anything else.
It doesn't fix everything, of course. Someone can still argue about using too many assertions or comments but it at least helps. If someone makes an argument about formatting then you can just say "well, Tool X formatted it this way so this is how it will be. If we think that should change in the future then let's open a different issue and discuss that."
For the small stuff that remains, ideally the reviewer can fix it - the reviewee is probably back in flow on another task, and it's irritating to have focus broken for inconsequential things.
As a side note, I like how github implemented this as "review suggestions", where the reviewer can make small changes inline and the reviewee approves them with a button push.
But the same type of things on the PR comments, the over-architected, highly-coupled monstrosity that never quite worked.
In the end, we ended up with 6K fewer lines of code (out of a total of 16K or so), and the thing actually works now. Go figure...