Ask HN: For a Facebook clone in 2019 what tech stack would you use?
Ideally looking for some framework or such that handles the boring stuff like automatically.
I am not even sure what you even mean by boring stuff. But if you are like some of the devs I have worked with I have heard over and over why do we have to write all this CRUD for forms and dashboards etc.
There are no shortcuts, and no frameworks that just magically solve all the problems without introducing tradeoffs.
Lol, you're going to have to put in lots and lots of effort, no matter what stack you use. What do you even mean by "boring stuff"?
I would however build the real-time chat system with Elixir and Phoenix. Just knock that out and not worry about chat performance for a very long time.
So I would build the main app with Rails. And the chat system with Elixir.