(tarantulas are not technically spiders themselves)This is something I've heard once before, but the specifics of why elude me--a refresher if you'd be kind enough to indulge my curiosity further? (There's a reason below) I've also heard that their bodies are quite fragile, or specifically their 'exoskeleton' is incredibly fragile but they've got strong muscles?
if even when someone is about to tell you something new and interesting about spiders they call them terrifying, of course most people will internalize this.
This is what clued me in that you may have some opinion and interesting things to share, just the way you responded to it.
For context, despite my fear of spiders, I was once in a relationship with someone who had not one, not two, but THREE pet spiders--and had many friends who were also similarly enthusiastic arachnophiles. She loved the creatures and came to help me appreciate them a bit more and even taught me a few things about them, despite my own fears, but I learned to recognize just the way one reacts to the discussions of spiders.
So that's why I started this discussion off inquiring the way I did--that you seemed like someone who didn't have much fear of the creature.
Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge here today!