[1] https://www.nielsen.com/us/en/insights/news/2018/time-flies-...
Just as my life is not for them, their life is not for me. At least they have some way to entertain themselves, whereas every second I spend relaxing comes with anxiety over whether I'm spending my time "usefully."
If you believe your origin and your destiny are agent-less and meaningless, then it makes the most sense to call everything in the middle meaningless also. Thus - eat, drink, watch TV, have fun till it's over. I can see that making sense.
But if life and its pursuits have any shred of meaning, then I think it's OK to say they could be doing better things with their time.
For some reason, though, there are a shitload of people out there that don't have this ambition. I understand difficulty empathizing with it, because to people like you and me it does look like a "waste of time." But for some reason it really is just ideal for a lot of people to be able to switch their brain off and sit comfortably in front of a TV and be entertained.
For these people, you could argue "you should be doing something better with your time," but all you'd get back is "why? This is comfortable."
I cannot understand that behavior. Even an hour or two a day seems like a lot for a kid to me.
7:00pm-8:00pm -- dinner with the family (during tv, possibly)
8:00pm-11:00pm -- homework + tv (mostly tv)
11:00pm-1:00am -- tv
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Even including sports practice, we've cracked over five hours, and that's from when I was in grade school.
Guessing kids these days do the same to stay on top of snap, insta, tiktok, reddit, etc.
College set me straight with sleeping, though. I was able to schedule classes no earlier than 10:30, and if I went out late into the night and got hammered I could sleep in on a whim without consequence. I was also able to have nap time again. Definitely struggled getting sleep with a full time job now, but its been getting better. Everyone where I work has their own schedules. Couple of us are here at 7, me and others don't get in till 10-10:30. Sometimes I work till 7, most of the time I leave by 5, and sometimes I leave at 3. Rigidity kills the soul.
Source: a friend that worked in the field.
Some parents have the TV on in the background but the children are distracted with other tasks.
For example, I will watch the news while my daughter plays in the same room doing her own thing.