Can you point out some big desktop projects made with QT that run on macOS and/or Windows?
In the open-source world: Krita, Scribus, Texmaker.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Software_that_uses_Qt
This is going to be a very limited list though, for instance there are dozens of applications in my domain that use Qt, and none of them are on this list.
I mean, just run a `find Qt5Core.dll` on windows or `find QtCore` on mac and see what's using Qt on your machine
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