How can HSTS prevent a man in the middle attack if the server has not even been contacted yet?
But even without preloading HSTS will improve security. Yes, the first visit will be susceptible to MITM, but every visit after that is not. This makes it a lot more difficult for an attacker as they must intercept the very first visit for the attack to work.
But even if it is not, it's still helpful for people connecting to your site again.