A Violent Splash of Magma That May Have Made the Moon
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Could of course be entirely wrong.
I didn't think about timescale though, the bow shock would require very short timescale (if at all plausible like you said).
If it happens on longer timescales, then maybe it's just surface heating from the emission of the other body.
> During Earth’s earliest days, it was covered by a sheet of molten silicate rock. Dr. Hosono’s team wondered what would have happened if Theia had crashed into Earth at that time, rather than during a later, cooler, more solid phase.
This is the simulation of how a moon could have been formed, this is not supposed to represent the formation of the actual Moon.
The animation doesn't show a moon in a stable orbit forming, so obviously it doesn't even show how it could have happened.