Only in very unusual places in the world, with unusual employers.
> My shitty laptop costs pretty close to 3k with all the mods I have on it.
If it's "shitty" and cost almost $3k, you were either taken for a ride or have unrealistic expectations.
> My work laptop came it at over 5k. A descent desktop for a developer can cost around $10k.
What kind of work and developer are we talking about? The only ones with computers near this cost I've met usually called themselves "Engineers" and were doing fluid modelling/finite element analysis. Or realtime video processing.