>we're lessened by you removing yourself
I don't see how
I don't see how
We're all pretty much the same, and in that, we all have pretty much the same potential to be better than whatever we are in this moment.
This is such an economists view on humanity and I can't help but wonder that assigning 'value' to people is part of what leads to increased suicide rates in the West in the first place.
You want this person to stay alive and continue suffering, because they represent value to you. Dead, they are of no value to you.
It's not the person's well-being you're interested in, it's what they can offer you to make your own life easier.
How is that not selfish but ending your own suffering is?