There are subjective things and there are objective things. What you're doing at this moment (trying to justify both sides) is intellectually dishonest.
> To them you are the assholes for calling it trash or wanting to get rid of it.
A child might call their parents stupid for not letting them eat candy all day. Objectively the parents are not stupid, the child has a mistaken perspective.
From the perspective of a hypergiant star, the sun is not that big. This does not change the objective truth that the sun is a large object.
I hope you realize you are justifying horrible, vile speech by trying to "see both sides".