A deaf girl who found her voice after brain surgery
bbc.co.uk
bbc.co.uk
... and perhaps you have seen those teary videos on Youtube, too, where a toddler hears the first time after a surgery and reacts to sound?
I am afraid that these pieces are at least somewhat disingenuous.
Usually they avoid to put into primary focus two important things:
- that even with surgery the child needs lots and lots of speech therapy (BBC said at least "...years of therapy...")
- and that it doesn't always work out.
These failed experiments are truly tragic: these children never learnt to communicate in a human language and will be mentally limited for their whole life: it's an effect of language deprivation.
The best way to approach a deaf child to minimize risks is a two-pronged approach: The parents should accept that they need to learn a Signed Language and the child should grow up bilingually: both in a Signed Language and in a Voiced Language. This prevents language deprivation if surgery didn't work out optimally.
So, in short: the girl should have been able to tell her parents she loves them long ago!
Disclaimer: I am Deaf myself and opinionated about this subject.
Well the deaf girl can hear now, so it is clear that sometimes people do have control over natural conditions.
either we have control over our fate and can change it, or if me manage to fix the problems we run into we were determined to do so. the end result is the same. we can't tell the difference because we don't know what our fate is. as a result it is pointless to even try to tell a difference. because any attempt to say that we are not determined to solve a problem is defeatist. how can we know which problems we are determined to solve and which not? the only way we can find out is by trying. if we fail, then maybe we are not determined to solve that problem. but we'll never know, therefore we must not give up trying. and in this case we solved the problem, so we obviously were determined to do so, hence no delusion here.
you are deluding yourself if you believe that you can tell your determination. being able to do so would imply that you can see into the future.
because i can't tell the future, i can't tell what i am determined to, hence the whole point becomes moot.