I really like this article. It's very concrete in terms of what the author experienced, how it felt, and the actions the people around her took to make her experience go well.

In a lot of the discussions around gender, I end up thinking. "OK, I care. Now what should I do?" This post actually has some answers.

Also, even though I've got basically all of the privilege merit badges, I can empathize with her about what it feels like to be intimidated and how a little caring support goes a very long way in that time.