I own a BMW i3 and the Tesla Model 3. Both have cellular connections and are constantly pinging their motherships. At least on the Tesla I have the option of opting out. No such ability is available on the BMW.
Does the CEO of BMW tweet that it's your fault after you wreck your car?
(They can't tell the reason for the crash remotely, they extract the data directly, in person, with physical access to the car.)