Our Honda Odyssey with DVD system also had an aux input in the back. I used that to play my Apple purchased content, originally via an iPod and then later via various iOS devices.
It’s a trade off. I’m not thrilled by “buying” my content from Apple but I think of all the providers I can “purchase” from they are least likely to leave me high and dry.
It’s a risk not owning the physical media, but if I had to guess, I’ve probably lost or had more physical media damaged (VHS tapes, DVDs), than lost access to streaming content I “own”.