I am amazed R didn't make it to the list.
Does anybody have experience with Orange or RapidMiner?
From http://www.gnu.org/software/dap/ : "Because Dap processes files one line at a time, rather than reading entire files into memory, it can be, and has been, used on data sets that have very many lines and/or very many variables."
As far as scoring, I usually export using PMML and run it natively on the database. Makes for fast execution. PMML is available in R, RapidMiner, and other packages.