And so we circle back around to the pointlessness of all meetings.
If it is as-needed to hash out an idea or determine the best way to fix something or to scope and point... that’s fine.
If it’s every day, twice a week, every MWF, etc. there is absolutely no way it’s actually necessary every one of those times and everyone is going to eventually defer to human nature and wait for the meeting to bring things up.
Part of that is natural and well intentioned - I’ve got the meeting in an hour, I won’t bother them yet, I’ll wait for it.
Part of that is natural and self-defeatist - if we already discussed everything then what will we discuss in the meeting?
The actual solution is to get rid of the meeting. The real solution is to just wait and discuss it all there. It’s like why I don’t call my mother the day before I go over to have dinner with her - we’re going to cover it all in the phone call and it’s going to be awkward silence while we eat.
And finally, if a standup is the best way you’ve found to make everyone feel like a team... there is no hope. That’s a really, really crappy way to make people feel included. Though that is what passes for team building at more places than not...