The Pi is pretty much the only one with the sales numbers to justify the cost of a customization, but even that would be a small miracle.
They make high-endurance SD cards that _are_ more reliable and _can_ handle being written to constantly but everyone cheaps out and just gets the cheapest thing on sale from the rainforest retailer and wonders why their cards keep dying.
RPi has binary blobs, but at least they keep supporting boards with software updates
But, I still agree with your point. I basically only buy Raspberry PI's now because the software experience has been terrible with everything else I've tried. (I only learned about Armbian recently, haven't actually tried it out yet.)
https://dl.sendcat.com/Aip36fb6Sn5KBIFQEV8xQ7A0X5sdEf5tX5zrL...
"USB3, Gigabit ethernet (proper), and on the higher variants, it will have a a sata port, second hdmi port (for in or out), and a higher end FGPA"
However:
"not 2019 according to ebden"