It depends on whether I have “enough” to comfortable meet my short term commitments, long term goals, and have nice to haves on the level that I desire.
To keep things short, let’s just say that my career stagnated until 10 years ago and I was basically at the salary level and skillset of a junior software engineer, my side hustles evaporated and I met my now wife and (step)children she was taking care of by herself.
I was living in a nice neighborhood with a horrible school system. She was living in a condo in the best school district in the state. We were worked together and we were both laid off. I was able to get a comparable job literally the next week, but she had to take a job either with crazy inconsistent hours or one paying less...
2012 - we were barely getting by when we moved to an apartment on the better side of town and we were both recovering and paying back money because of $life. I stayed at the company just long enough to finish modernizing my tech stack and I jumped ship for $25K two years later.
2014 - now between the $25K I was making and the extra $10K she was
making we had enough to comfortable live our lives, get a new car she desperately needed and get myself a new car so I could hand my old one down to my son who was now a senior to go back and forth to college with the next year - and car insurance for teenager.
We had enough to qualify for the house we wanted in the school district we wanted, but I knew it would be a stretch.
But by 2016, I knew I could call up my list of well curated recruiters and get a job making $25K more that would make buying a house much more comfortable. We started the process of getting a house built, as soon as we closed, I made a few calls and had a job making my target salary before the first mortgage payment was due.
Now, in 2019, things are different. The only job opportunities that I have in my local market that pay even 25K more that I am qualified for without going into management are consulting jobs. I just don’t want to do that now and I wouldn’t take the 25% raise that they have offered me.
Sure we could build our net worth faster, but it wouldn’t make any significant difference in our lifestyle.
Money was the major motivation for me leaving a job between 2008-2016, but now it would be based on whether I am working with technology that keeps me marketable and whether I like the environment.