Well, the French language isn't really standardised internationally either, as many French-speaking countries have their own equivalent to the Académie.
The Office québécois de la langue française in Québec is the most active and influential one (as an example, their proposed word "courriel" for replacing "email" is the most common variant, even in France) and Belgium also has a Conseil de la langue française. Switzerland also has a Délégation à la langue française which is much less active, and the equivalents in Africa are mostly anecdotal for now though.
Yes the US seemed to go with Webster, while the rest of the anglosphere went with Johnson. Not quite as simple as that, as there were a few different waves of reform.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/English-language_spelling_re...
See also: “Inflammable means flammable? What a country!”
'Canceling'? That looks like a spelling mistake :-)
[1] https://www.oxforddictionaries.com/our-story/creating-dictio...
It seems Romance Language academies love to squabble and love their "exclusive club". Though to be honest I haven't heard of a similar push to exclude people in other Academies
It’s just an english habit of bashing an idiotic gallicism, just like we find their queen concept surreal and idiotic ahah
I'm not sure what it's about. Maybe a holdover from French being the language of the English aristocracy during the middle ages?
As an American, my impression is that French is just considered more elegant and sophisticated than other foreign languages. I wouldn't consider it anymore difficult than another language, and quite a bit easier than some (e.g. Chinese).
...But I'm not a WASP, and if anyone has opinions similar to what you describe, my bet is they'd be WASPs.
I am not a historian and I'm quite happy to be corrected, but I'm suggesting these as factors.