The Last Ride of Cowboy Bob (2005)
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https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2003/01/27/the-old-man-an...
https://www.texasmonthly.com/articles/the-talented-mr-khater...
Pretty sure I never saw that submission at the time. I am tempted to add it to the next HN 'highlights' list, but I suppose it's too morbid.
It’s entirely possible the thrill of being Cowboy Bob was simply “being someone else for a little while” rather than deep gender issues; and we can’t speak for Peggy Jo.