You know what - seperation from society, aka the public plaza from any religion and attempts to impose religion like dogmas/rules/systems.
It really is the most easy way out. Nobody gets to errect his borderwalls of textile or lack thereof in main street. We vote on a standard, and thats it. That way all those warmongers steering the soupkitchen of hate cant warm on the heat of the debate. The only solution is not to play.