Serverless DNS over HTTPS (DoH) at the Edge
blog.stackpath.com
blog.stackpath.com
and yes, currently TLS (+SNI) leaks the domain name (server name in TLS parlance), but there's work being done on that and it's very likely that in a few years that leaky hole will be closed too.
It's the current "web scale".
I have no idea what software or hardware my DNS provider uses. All the scaling, fault tolerance, backups etc are out of sight and out of mind.