A woman who doesn't feel pain
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https://www.newscientist.com/article/mg24132143-900-silencin...
You could certainly expect to avoid some pain by meditating. Maybe you picked up a coffee cup that is a little too warm, and you just "mind-over-matter" through it. Sure.
But if you got shot? Well, I can't imagine a scientist is going to feel comfortable actually testing anyone claiming they could meditate their way through that.
Um... how does one even perform such a test? It's not like you don't know you're meditating.
This is great for going to the dentist, but I suppose it's not so great for managing chronic pain, however.
Meditation is unnatural. The natural thing is to experience pain when something painful happens.
IMHO there is currently no way to re-program your mind like that with external means.
It works, but only if I can wholly concentrate on it.
Also how did she not die as a child? When you never get the negative feedback of touching something got, cutting yourself, breaking a rib falling off a tree... This is just crazy to me, more than the fact that this condition actually exists.
Her son has a similar mutation but daughter doesn't.
NY Times Article: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/28/health/woman-pain-anxiety...
Reminds me of Ferro, in Abercrombie's First Law trilogy. She felt no pain. But she was not at all happy. More like always angry.
And there are virtually no pure heroes or villains. I mean, he gets you feeling sympathetic with an expert torturer. And with a bunch of more-or-less psychotic marauders. Because he gets to to understand what's shaped them. What they've been through. And as well, it's loaded with great fight sequences.
If you haven't read his other books in that world, I highly recommend it. There's one that's largely about Logen.
Though it does lead you to wonder just what the limits are of how much the body could tolerate before it breaks in the absence of pain.
Kids learn to do this regardless of pain. And even adults do feel pain when they believe that they should feel pain (but really don't). So I don't think it needs to be super obvious.
There are these two young fish swimming along and they happen to meet an older fish swimming the other way, who nods at them and says “Morning, boys. How’s the water?” And the two young fish swim on for a bit, and then eventually one of them looks over at the other and goes “What the hell is water?”
https://www.cbc.ca/radio/outintheopen/impostors-1.4695876/ho...
The lecture is given by a respected pain research scientist, and it also covers much of modern pain science (including why the biomedical model of pain is outdated and how the biopsychosocial model of pain is more representative of observations of human pain experiences).
Edit: You can see him explain the effects of not feeling pain in this video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XalQkahQbpE
https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/4xmbu9/iama_16_year_o...
Srivastava & Cox, "Microdeletion in a FAAH pseudogene identified in a patient with high anandamide concentrations and pain insensitivity" (22 Feb 2019) https://bjanaesthesia.org/article/S0007-0912(19)30138-2/full...
Ha!! Like you can just "check someone's medical history." Yeah right! As if that history were in a single, easily queried database or something! Everyone knows real human medical histories are spread out over thousands of dog-eared pages hanging out of faded, worn-out folders located in dozens of doctors offices and hospitals across this great country of ours! What planet does that woman live on?!!
I dated a girl who had a brain tumor removed as a child. As a result of this she had an incredibly high tolerance for pain. I don't mean stub-your-toe tolerance. I mean beat-me-with-a-belt-so-I-can-feel-something tolerance. Obviously it made for some interesting fun. Eventually I had to stop dating her out of fear I was going to permanently injure her in her search for pain sensations. She literally scared me.
Turns out, making people scream (when they want to be screaming) is all that really does it for me: sex is wet and sticky and gross and I kinda hate it.
On either end of the paddle, though; I think it's all about the endorphins?
Do you think you'd experience the same thrill torturing(?) a masochist as you would a non-masochist?
Oh my god, no, absolutely not. It makes me sick to even think of doing that shit to somebody who doesn't want it. Nevermind the legal consequences, I couldn't live with myself.
I've heard some similar stories from folks who did things for their partners, who didn't enjoy the things they were doing. It's weird because you feel like you're the responsible one; you're in control, holding the belt or whatever! But you're not really in control. You're the one pushing your boundaries, inexperienced and barely-willing, and probably completely unprepared.
I have a lot of sympathy for you, and it's okay to be upset. If these memories are still painful, I'd heartily recommend talking to a professional.
As for people in her position: go to fetlife, get in touch with your local community, and find somebody who (a) knows what they're doing and won't damage you, and (b) gives free, prior and informed consent. Don't just demand/convince your vanilla partner to try shit out -- that's neither free nor informed; and if your demands escalate in-scene, then it's not prior.
Probably a alcoholic or something.
If she wasn't, why would she consume an entire bottle of vodka?
I recall from Hofstadter the idea that feedback loops in consciousness rely on some of the same components that mediate the senses. So anger and fear are rather like mental pain.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/S.M._(patient)
There is a radiolab podcast where they actually interview her.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Pain-Nobody-Wants-Paul-Brand/dp/006...
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gift-Pain-Hurt-What-About/dp/031022...
But having no anxiety? wow, that sounds like true heaven to anxious me.
What about holding your breath? The pain is from co2 in your lungs, not a lack of o2, so it is mostly your brain/will stopping you from holding it longer.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Congenital_insensitivity_to_pa...
You would think a friend might mention it - I would think a close friend must notice a complete lack of pain response.
In the UK at least, most women only use Entonox (a mixture of oxygen and nitrous oxide) for pain relief, and painkillers are only administered during lengthy pregnancy's. I wouldn't be surprised if the doctors/midwives were a little baffled, but just figured she was a hard nut.
Maybe stop cooking?
But you don't ignore them. If you have a bruise on your shin, you may not think much about it, but it's pretty unlikely that you'll bump your leg just as hard again on the coffee table on the same spot.
Indian chef dips his BARE HANDS in searing 200C cooking oil to fry street food... and doesn't suffer any burns...
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3317037/Indian-chef...