I actually _do_ reverify safety numbers out-of-band every time they change.
Would be cool to see what the numbers are for reverifications.
One time i got a postcard from a friend with their safety number on it and nothing else. I recognized their handwriting to complete the loop.
What you described sounded interesting
The following questions are not intended as attempts to poke a hole on the requirement for out of band verification. Do you meet in person and speak in whispers or show some code that's hidden from the view of others (and cameras)? Or do you use a voice call or SMS (both expressly designed to support surveillance)? Or do you use another end to end encrypted app or email (if yes, how do you verify the keys for that)?