Your perspective is in agreement with studies in network science, which have uncovered that in a wide variety of physical, biological, and man-made phenomena, the network models follow a power law distribution, and as a result, you end up with situations such as, for example Kim Kardashian having 130M followers, while the average Instagram user probably has about 1-2k followers. Other similar distributions: income, research paper citations, world wide web, etc.
It appears that uneven distributions are inevitable in free human networks, or as Will & Ariel Durant once noted:
> Nature smiles at the union of freedom and equality in our utopias. For freedom and equality are sworn and everlasting enemies, and when one prevails the other dies.