$1,790 a month and 'no cooking' allowed: Welcome to renting in the Bay Area
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Then there was the process of getting the place, Print out credit score in advance, show up on the spot (hoping to get in on the early rental showing, prior to the publicized showing) and be prepared to put down 1st and last months rent and 1 month deposit then and there.
It's simply not feasible for most americans to do that. Even the tech-oriented jobs aren't all paying the crazy rates you read about. The fact that the Department of Housing and Urban Development now states that $82k a year puts a single person in "Low Income" is just preposterous. As ahead of the curve as the city likes to project itself on social issues, it has a lot of do as I say not as I do attitudes among the NIMBY crowd.
I think it's turned it into a situation of in your early 20's, go to SF/Bay and experience it, then in your thirties start looking elsewhere for quality of life.
Still managed to get pretty big working out and eating a diet that consisted of meats you could microwave (a lot of precooked sausage and can chili haha), we definitely didn't make SF money so there wasn't a lot of eating out.
- strong food smells
- dirty pots and pans, spills
- poor sharing behavior
There may also be safety/insurance/lawsuit concerns. And less profit due to appliance/plumbing repairs.
Not everyone lives in SF.
https://www.blogto.com/real-estate-toronto/2018/10/what-2200...
That was what we could afford at the time, until stuff took off.
I am so glad I did it though. The area is a lot better fit for me than Western PA although you give up a lot of freedoms. Definitely can't walk outside and shoot guns in your back yard :)
Pretty much I pay to be around other smart people.
I'm not sure any location in the world with a high concentration of a valuable talent/skill will have cheap living expenses.
When I first moved to the Bay Area a decade ago, there were many houses made up of artists, musicians, anarchists, and punks that held poetry readings, music shows, fed people (via Food Not Bombs or similar efforts, or just by simply cooking food on regular days and offering it to anyone who happened to swing by), supported people who were struggling (Needle Exchange, mental health support groups, survivor groups), or even provided a temporary place to sleep to strangers in return for abiding by a code of conduct and doing some chores or paying some (truly) nominal fee.
Those places, some of which had been around since the dotcom days and had effectively become local institutions, quickly started disappearing as landlords started aggressively serving eviction notices. One notable example that comes to mind was Hellarity [0] -- Hellarity was somewhat exceptional as it was a squat, where most of the houses I'm thinking of weren't. But it was a pretty special place nonetheless.
I don't want to glorify these houses too much since there were issues as there inevitably will be with any large, mostly unstructured group of people. There was plenty of shady and unsavory stuff going on.
What's sad to me is the loss of diversity of human experiences, and the loss of the resources offered in spaces like this. The loss of these inordinately impacts lower income people. People escaping abusive situations. People who aren't on tech salaries or benefits. People who don't have health insurance at all.
Also: a friend of mine who rents space in an art studio in Berkeley that dozens of artists work out of was telling me that the space was just sold, and it's becoming increasingly clear the new owners aren't interested in keeping it as an art studio.
The Bay Area kind of bums me out, to say the least.
[0]: https://www.indybay.org/newsitems/2012/03/07/18708901.php
Things have just got crazier in rental market in Silicon Valley.
Looks like home prices are down 8% since last year in SF. Maybe things will get better soon
I'm an adult, if I never cook because I like to eat out, shouldn't that be my choice? Who am I hurting by choosing not to cook?
The idea of what's good at large is what differentiates a society from a bunch of people that just happen to share a country and a legal code.
Who am I hurting by choosing to eat out every day?
Plus "no cooking allowed" is not about having or not having a kitchen.