Be a gatherer & not a hunter. In other words, find clients you can put on a monthly retainer instead of big projects that pay you once and force you to look for work for 5 months when done.
I have done this by working for a single employer. I got tired of the uncertainty of contracting and like the steady pay and benefits. Some people might think I'm a sucker but a feel like I sleep better these days (for the last decade, I guess).
Doing your own thing is not for everyone.
Are you saying parent is not doing his own thing, or that the people who think he's a sucker aren't doing their own thing?
I agree with the latter :)
There’s nothing wrong to work for an employer if it’s easier on your life. Some people prefer solo for whatever reason - whatever works for you ya know...