You can use google search to add 0x9 + 0x2 and get hexadecimal 0xb... however that involves dozens of layers of abstraction and endless formatting and parsing that are fundamentally useless in the long run for something like a GPU display.
The 4th reason hardware is vastly cheaper is it needs less testing.
In the example above you can either trust your FPGA/ASIC software to implement a byte-wide full adder properly, because thats kinda a basic task for that technology, or you can whack the byte-wide adder with all possible test cases in a couple ns on real hardware, all possible binary inputs and outputs are quite well known and trivial. When you ask google, or worse, alexa, to add two hexadecimal digits there are uncountable number of theoretical buffer overflows and MITM attacks possible spyware/virus infections and similar such nonsense at multiple layers you probably are not even aware of.
The 5th reason hardware is vastly cheaper is environmentalism and energy costs. I have trouble estimating the energy cost of a byte-wide adder in a ASIC or a CPU, surely it can't be more than charging and discharging a couple sub-pF capacitors... takes billions of transistors switching like crazy to dump the 100 watts a server motherboard can dump and a full adder doesn't take many transistors. On the other hand the infrastructure and environmental damage required to ask Alexa to add two hex digits is very high. You can piggy back on it by passing the buck; well, we need that environmental damage and economic cost to enable netflix at which point asking alexa questions is a drop in the bucket, but people have polluted for centuries on the same argument (well, its just a little extra lost plutonium and compared to above ground nuclear testing its a drop in the bucket, etc)