beside everything else, getting retro-rockets work well at hypersonic speeds is a key to landing on Mars (I really loved the de-facto SpaceX propaganda series "Mars". Even better than "Martian" for me. The only slight disappointment is the cop out at the very end).
Did you notice ULA's reusable/refuelable ACES is aimed squarely at BEO?
And if SpaceX and Blue Origin bid for the 2 LOP-G resupply flights, they'll bid reusable launchers and claim significant cost savings.
Sounds like everyone has reusable stuff in their plans. Believe what you want!
Also, saying "If you don't want to see that point I can't really help that" is not going to result in a good conversation.
Escape velocity of Mars is less than half Earth's or about double the moon's.