Life is weird.
Life is weird.
It's mind boggling how apt humans are to what should be impossible.
It's something that you should consider viewing if you have the chance. The cinematography alone is worth the price of admission // rental.
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/24/movies/oscar-winners.html
So yes, war is a horrendous waste and terrible detriment to humanity, but even war has had some beneficial side effects.
That said: All the constraints on making it reusable and safe for humans are also a key factor why Space Shuttle was so expensive. With SpaceX's rockets not all parts need to resist the stress of reentry etc.
The 're-used' aspect of the Shuttle involved massive re-fits which took months for each vehicle. It was like having to send your car back to the manufacturer for a total rebuild (often including engine change) every time you went for a drive. SpaceX is a massive improvement in this respect.
So also a complete rebuild, with reuse occurring at the segment level, not of the whole booster assembly.
Additionally, SpaceX is serious about Starship/BFR. That's fully reusable and will be capable of going to the Moon (or even Mars) and back fully reusably: https://twitter.com/JaneidyEve/status/1102023437206388736
beside everything else, getting retro-rockets work well at hypersonic speeds is a key to landing on Mars (I really loved the de-facto SpaceX propaganda series "Mars". Even better than "Martian" for me. The only slight disappointment is the cop out at the very end).
Escape velocity of Mars is less than half Earth's or about double the moon's.
Did you notice ULA's reusable/refuelable ACES is aimed squarely at BEO?
And if SpaceX and Blue Origin bid for the 2 LOP-G resupply flights, they'll bid reusable launchers and claim significant cost savings.
Sounds like everyone has reusable stuff in their plans. Believe what you want!
Also, saying "If you don't want to see that point I can't really help that" is not going to result in a good conversation.