His uncle is 100% correct. Adding a bot to a conversation thread is very likely literally connecting a hose up to your family discussions and sending all of them to a random startup. You wouldn't add in a random human fact-checker, and even with the illusion that the only entity reading your texts is a robot, there's no guarantee that will always be the case.
"Ms. Hsu, the developer, said Meiyu isn’t designed to collect personal data on users." 1) objectives change, 2) ownership changes, 3) it very likely collects personal data whether it's meaning to or not. Brilliant. I literally could not think of a better target for a state actor than something like this, which could give pretty deep insight into what people are thinking about you when they talk privately.