You are confusing the right to continue one's own life with the right to create someone else's life. If individual beings want to continue their lives, then that is just fine. It is unethical, though, to create new lives. Where is the problem?
Would I be incorrect to assume you're a Peter Singer-esque utilitarian ethicist?
I don't know much about philosophy. Negative utilitarianism (minimizing harm) seems to fit me fairly well, but I would call myself a philantropic antinatalist.
Seems more like a neo-schopenhauer serotonin deplete-ist.
I challenge you to back up your implicit assertion that this is all in my head with an actual argument. Show me that I'm wrong.