Okay: Pass a photon, or electron, or other particle, through a beam splitter and, thus, get its wave function in two parts.
Then the question seems to be, do the parts also get bent by gravity? Is there any doubt they won't.
For a particle with mass, surely it has gravity. So, the two parts of its wave function no longer have gravity -- is that the question she is asking? Maybe depending on the beam splitter, the two parts of the wave function have 60% and 40% of the gravity of the whole particle?
Get a lot of particles, say, neutrons, that do feel and generate gravity and run them through a beam splitter. Bunch #1 goes north and bunch #2 goes east. So far they still generate gravity? Some miles away from the beam splitter we put detectors, one for each bunch. With a 50%-50% beam splitter, with the law of large numbers, we detect 50% of the particles at each detector. That is, each detector gets a part of the wave function for ALL the particles but detects only half of the particles.
Suppose the detector for bunch #1 is some miles farther from the beam splitter than the detector for bunch #2. So, the wave functions for bunch #2 hit their detector before the wave functions for bunch #1 hits their detector.
Now look at the wave functions for bunch #1: About half of those wave functions have already collapsed due to detections at the detector for bunch #2. So, the gravity generated by the remaining wave functions of bunch #1 are, from the law of large numbers, half what they would be without a detector for bunch #2. So, for bunch #1, we have had faster than speed of light communications from the detector for bunch #2 to a measurement of the gravity of bunch #1.
Yes, we can't get a gravity detector sensitive enough, but for that theory that's not important. Instead, for the bunches to generate gravity gets to be an issue anyway.