I basically have to give up priorities to focus on others. I've recently given up hobbies like gaming (tabletop and computer) for less time consuming hobbies like the guitar (one lesson a week and about 20 minutes of practice each night). My friends will get attention one weekend and my girlfriend another. Rather than go out for food with my coworkers, I typically read a book during my lunch hour. I have very little energy after work so if I can't bring myself to clean or read I'll dump some more time into guitar practice between aimless web browsing sessions. I have the motivation to work on a project for a few days every few months or so but I just can't ever get anything done. If I had more motivation I could probably make some life changes that would help me better manage my time, but at 30 years old I haven't come close to cracking that code and I've become complacent enough to stop caring.