Given that most stuff these days is packed together with Webpack or at least concat'd together, you don't really save much, plus jQuery in gzip'd form is clocking in at <30 kB anyway (https://mathiasbynens.be/demo/jquery-size).
> and pretty much unmaintained code (at this point, the jQuery github is as good as dead, unlikely to see major releases any time soon)
So what? Software can very well be "done", there is no need to always evolve and evolve. As long as there is no security issue left unsolved, though.
In addition, if you're rebuilding half of it on your own anyway, chances are high you'll miss some weird corner case that jQuery solved years, or decades, ago.